Asleep in Jesus Friday, March 19, 2021. Beloved wife of the late Jack Messmer; loving mother of Jennifer (Mike) Wientge and Juliet Messmer; dear grandmother of Nicole (John) Winter, Shelly, Melissa, Samantha, Jack and Alexis Wientge; dear aunt. sister-in-law, cousin, friend and master gardener.
Services: Visitation at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois, Monday, March 22, 4-8 p.m. Then at Resurrection Lutheran Church (9907 Sappington Rd., 63128) Tuesday, March 23, 9 a.m. until service at 10 a.m. Interment Our Redeemer Cemetery. Memorials to Animal Protection Agency appreciated
Our deepest sympathies to Jenny, Mike and Juliet and all who knew and loved Jackie. We mourn the loss of our dear cousin but rejoice in knowing she is at peace and in the loving embrace of all those who preceded her in death. Godspeed Jackie. Say hi to Jack, Uncle Bill, Aunt Fawn, grandma and grandpa and my mom and dad. They adored you. Love Brian and Theran.
Jackie and I first met in kindergarten at Gethsemane Lutheran School. She got my chocolate milk for me because I was afraid to go get it. Through the years she has been a wonderful, supportive friend. I have gotten lost in laughter with her many, many times. We had lots of fun every time we got together. It is impossible to express how much I will miss her laugh and her sense of humor but I know she is in a wonderful place.
Dear Family of Jackie
We share your sorrow of loosing a beautiful friend, Jackie who served our community in many ways and many people.
We will always remember her.
My deepest condolences to her family and friends!
Working with her for many years and seen her help many people improve their lives she did a great service to the community. She will be deeply missed.
My condolences to her family.
My heart is broken. We all lost a wonderful soul; now resting with with God. My deepest condolences to the family and all that knew and loved her.
My heart feels deep sadness for Jennifer, Juliet, all of The grand kids and the entire family that was blessed to have this beautiful journey with Jackie.
I am thankful my life was touched when Jackie first became my therapist in 1990…later and forever she was my dear friend. Memories of our last lunch, hours of great convo, the laugh only Jackie had and our departing hug is forever with me. Her wonderful smile, laughter and warmth will be felt to eternity.
Jackie was an an amazing woman. She put energy, zest and passion in all she did, and was an inspiration to me as a fellow therapist. I will always treasure the talks we had. I will truly miss her!
My heart is is hurting after hearing about Jackie. I only met Jackie in March of 2019 and the impact she had on my life is nothing short of amazing. She is one great lady. My deepest sympathy to her family. RIP, sweet Jackie!!
My deepest sympathies to Jackie’s family. I will be thinking of you in the days ahead.
Jackie was such a lovely soul. She brought a sparkle every where she went. I’m very grateful to have known her and shared some very fond memories through the years.
Jackie will have a lasting impact on our family. She did marriage therapy for us and then was my individual therapist for a long time. I always looked forward to speaking with her. She knew me better than I know myself. She touched many lives and did God’s work in so many ways. I hope for heaven and to see her again when it is my time. God bless and comfort those she left behind. Our lives are better for knowing her.
Very sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet mother. Prayers and hugs to you all.
Please know our hearts and prayers are with Jennifer & Mike & Julie as you your children and family mourn the loss of Jackie. We know with Jackie’s deep faith and love of the Lord she is smiling down on her loving family. Blessings✝️
We would love to be at the visitation and funeral, however we received our second vaccine on last week and we must wait and quarantine a full two weeks before venturing out and around people.
We are praying for comfort, strength, and peace in your loss, and the assurance of the resurrection and of God’s faithful love during this sad time. May you also be comforted by wonderful memories of your mom and what she meant to your family and all who knew her. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
I am so sorry to hear for Jackie’s passing. Words can not describe how important she was to so many people including myself. She will be missed and memories of her will be cherished.
My deepest sympathies to Jackie’s family.
I meet her when she work with my husband, she was a wonderful person.
I am so saddened to hear of Jackie’s passing. She touched my life and made a difference as she did for so many. She will be missed. Praying for her family as they navigate life without her.
I have just learned of Jackie’s passing and want to express how saddened I am to learn this. She was a fun, kind, and caring person and I always looked forward to our time together. I hope her family can find comfort in their memories and in knowing that she will be dearly missed by many people. Peace to Jackie’s family.