(nee Feldhaus) Baptized into the hope of Christ’s Resurrection Sunday, August 28, 2022.
Beloved wife of the late Robert Rugraff Jr.; loving mother of Kathy (Bill) Bakula, Diane Coughlin, Robin Rugraff-Pasche, and Bob Rugraff; dearest grandmother of Casey (Cassie) Coughlin, Lou Grace and Corey Coughlin, Brian Bakula, Dana (Fiancé Jack), Sara, Lara, Tatiana, and Valentine; dear aunt, great aunt, cousin and friend to many.
The most favorite thing she ever did was be a mom, and she was amazing at it!
SERVICES: Memorial Service at Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois Rd., Saturday, September 17, from 2:00 pm until the funeral service at 4:00 pm. Interment will be held on Monday September 19 at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery at 9:45 am. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Center https://www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html?sc_icid=header-btn-donate-now , Equus Rescue https://equusrescue.org/donate, God’s Grace Animal Rescue or Paraquad https://www.paraquad.org/how-to-help/donate/ are appreciated.
I know the pain never goes away when you lose a loved one. But, as the days go by, you will see signs that make you think of you mother and have memories that will make you smile. I pray her soul is resting in peace and I pray you will have peace knowing how much she loved you.
Sending love, thoughts, and prayers to family during this tough time.judy was an amazing Mother and an amazing person. Judy had her special way of letting you know how much she loved you. I will miss Judy but her memory lives in my heart.
Thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Aunt Judy was a wonderful woman and will be missed immensely by family and friends.
I have fond memories of gatherings at her house over the holidays as a young one.
Enjoy Heaven Aunt Judy— we will miss your smile and fun-self here on Earth
Judy was a kind neighbor to me when I lived on Summit Tree Court. I am sorry to hear of her passing. God bless you all with His hand of comfort and peace as you mourn her loss.
Darice Kelley
Sending love and prayers from the Jecmen side of the family: Dolores Jecmen Brewington, and Rosemary’s girls Michelle de Vera, Dolores de Vera & Rosanne de Vera Taft
Mom it is strange writing on your condolences page. I want only the best for you and sincerely hope, the other side is what we imagined it. You deserve. I have been breaking down for no reason due to our loss. Love you, i have some health issues but will be there as soon as I can. robin no 3 of rugraff clan)
Rest In Peace and fly high up in heaven Judy. Sending love and ((hugs)) to family. Kathy, keep an eye out for those ‘Godwinks’ from your mom!
Mom– love you and always thinking of you… you remain here in our minds and hearts. Love your kids