Asleep in Jesus on Wednesday, February 9, 2022.
Beloved husband of Debbie Myers (nee Kirves); loving father of Rachael Myers and Stacey MacPherson; adoring Papa of Kayley and Colin; dear former spouse of Sara Myers (nee Shaffer); dear brother of Olivia Locke; dear brother-in-law of Nancy (the late Jerry) Snyder, Phyllis Carey and the late Jerry (surviving Mary Lou) Kirves. Our dearest uncle, great-uncle, cousin and friend to many.
Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Rd. 63123 on Tuesday, February 15 from 4-8 pm., then on Wednesday, February 16 at The Lutheran Church of Webster Gardens (8749 Watson Rd. 63119) from 9:00 am. until Funeral Service time at 10:00 am. Interment at Sunset Cemetery. In lieu of flowers contributions to National MS Society, Paraquad, American Cancer Society or The Lutheran Church of Webster Gardens appreciated.
We are so sorry for your loss.
May Ray always keep us laughing
Debbie and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We always enjoyed out chats with Ray and Willow while on walks at Tuscany. He had a wonderful sense of humor and great smile. We will never forget your wedding day and watching all of your friends who came to help you two celebrate. Please know that you are in and thoughts and prayers.
We are sorry for your loss. Will miss seeing Ray and Willow on our walks. Ray was always in a good mood and would keep you laughing. We remember your wedding day and the wonderful boat ride. Please contact us if you need any help. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
We are sorry for your loss. We always enjoyed visiting while here at Tuscany. Our condolences are with your family.
So sorry to hear that Ray has passed. I heard for years how he was such a giving man. He left a legacy of kindness and cheer. He will not be forgotten. I can imagine that he and Jerry are having nice conversations right now! Love you!
There will be less laughter in the world without Ray, but I’m sure he has the angels in stitches! Blessed to have known him.
Sam & Helen Scarfino (Tuscany 1R)
We will miss seeing Ray and Willow having adventures. Our condolences Debbie and family. If there’s anything we can do to help let us know.
Dear Deb, my condolences to you and Ray’s family. I always enjoyed our visits at the lake. I fondly remember your wedding. Ray will be missed. Strength to you. Take care.
Dear Debbie so sorry to hear about your loss. We will miss talking with Ray at the Elks.
If any thing we can do please let us know
Our thought and prayers are with you
John and Shirley Eitel
Dear Debbie we are so sorry for your loss. Ray will definitely be missed. We so enjoyed our times together.
If you need anything let us know.
John and Shirley Eitel
Dear Deb,
My condolences to you and thoughts will continue. Joi and I so enjoyed meeting Ray while we walked the Tuscany Road. We often stopped and visited with him. He was always interesting, engaging, knowledgeable about everything, and witty. Ray will be missed. You were a wonderful spouse. May God grant you strength and time will heal your loss. Sincerely, DeVere Meyer
We will all miss Ray. He was one heck of a great guy. I felt honored to have known him. Rest in peace
So sorry to Debbie and Ray’s family
Ray was an energetic, smart, kind and hilarious guy! My heart breaks for all of his loved ones. I will cherish the moments that I got to spend around him during our McCarthy days. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends.
So so sorry for your loss Debbie and Ray’s family. No words
Ray was a pleasure to be around and an intelligent guy to work for. He has been and will continue to be missed!
We loved seeing Ray wheel by our house while giving his three legged dog a walk.
He was an amazing man!