Saturday April 17, 2021.
Beloved mother of Christine (Brian) Moellering and Robert (Renee) Jacobi; loving grandmother of Matthew, Gillian, Emily, Tatiana and Trey; dear great-grandmother of Brynlee; dear sister of Kathy (Chuck) Zoeller, Joann (Dan) Bokerman, Tom (Karen) Beck and Mary (Jim) Wolf; dear aunt, great-aunt, cousin and friend.
Services: Visitation at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL 10151 Gravois, Thursday April 22, 4:00 PM-7:00 PM. Memorials to American Cancer Society appreciated.
Sorry for your loss in your family.. I worked with Pat many years at Wash U Dept of Pediatrics . She was a very nice person ..
Pat was so loved by her Pediatric Residency coordinator family. She made friends literally from all across the country and left an indelible mark on all of our hearts! Our deepest condolences to all of her family and friends! We will miss you Pat!
I am deeply saddened by Pats passing.
I grew up with her for almost my whole childhood. We would swim at the pool and I would go to her house and help with her flowers in the back yard(in mehlville area.)
She was a blessing to have in my life and will always be held dear in my memories. She was by far the most amazing soul I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing.
Patricia will be missed by so many of her friends and family. Her APPD family will also mourn her passing. Pats smile and welcoming nature was one of the things that drew people to her. As a fellow coordinator I will always remember her as a contributor and friend. Rest In Peace my friend.
Deepest condolences to Pat’s family and friends. I worked with Pat for a few years (Wash U Peds). She was a kind person who loved her family, and loved helping people. Pat will be missed dearly.
I will miss my beautiful friend forever! There is a part of me that will laugh about all of our antics but theres a part of me that will cry for a beautiful soul that was gone from our lives way too soon! Rest in eternal peace Pat until we meet again. Heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy to her children grandchildren and siblings. Fly high sweet beautiful you!!
So sorry for your loss. Pat and I did the same jobs in different states. We met at a national meeting years ago. We were an email or a phone call away when a question or problem arose. She was always smiling, always helpful and a joy to be around. RIP Pat
Pat was such a fun mom. She would always be around, and liked to have a good time as much as her daughter,Christy, and her friends did. She would always ask about our lives and take time to listen. I know how much she adored her kids and grandkids. I will forever associate margaritas and Springsteen when mamma Pat. She will be dearly missed.
To Patricia’s family I am extended my sincerest sympathies and condolences. I knew Pat through the NPPD Pediatric Residency Group and at annual conferences. She was loved by many and will be sorely missed.
Dee Burkins
Albany, NY
I am sorry for your loss. Pat was such a wonderful lady. Her and I have had so many great conversations. She always talked so highly of her family. I will miss her very much.
Pat was such an amazing person, who cared deeply about her community at the APPD. She was an inspiration and always gave a hug, kiss, and smiling face to everyone she met as well as to all her old friends, across this nation, in Pediatrics. You will be missed but not forgotten. Your light will be absent; but, your example will shine on for others!
Rest in Peace!
Pat was such an amazing mentor and friend to all of the coordinators across the country who knew her. I will miss her warm presence.
Pat was my best friend. We joined the Y together and after Yoga and working out we would blow it all by having lunch out. We worked up quite an appetite. I’ll always think of her when I have lunch. She was a joy to know. I’ll miss her terribly.
Dear Family Members,
Please know of my prayers and thoughts of support during this difficult time of loss.
Patricia (Pat) and I were classmates at St. Philip Neri Parish School. I am saddened to see her announcement of death.
My condolences and promise of prayers for your family.
Sincerely,
Kathy, Joann and Family, my heart aches at this sad news. I’m so grateful that I got to meet Pat. I liked her immediately. You are in my heart and prayers.
I got to work with Pat and Dr. White for several years in WashU Peds. Pat was so passionate about her work and “her” residents. She accomplished so much while she was there and was truly beloved by all. Our touch bases were one of the highlights of my week. Her humor and care for her team always left me energized and excited about the work. I will miss her and will keep all of you in my prayers.
Bless you and your family.
Pat was absolutely lovely, warm, and welcoming. She will be missed. <3
I had the honor of working with Pat for over 10 years in the Pediatric residency office. I learned so much from her. She truly loved her job and all her residents. She made you feel like part of her family. She was always so supportive and encouraging. Pat was one of a kind and will be missed by so many. Sending prayers to her family and friends.
Everyone who knew Pat (PJ), knew that her favorite artist was Bruce Springsteen…..Well, Bruce, PJ and I go back a bit….Back to September 1984! I met PJ when she walked into our Y Dance Aerobics class elated because she was able to score Springsteen concert tickets. I quickly responded…..ME TOO! Well, since that day, we’ve gone together to as many Bruce Concerts as we could, as well as several beach vacays, cruises, movies, theatre performances, and of course, countless Margarita Nights!
Bruce wrote the song Bobby Jean for his best friend and it quickly became our tribute song to each other! Here’s to you PJ, I’ll Miss You “Bobby Jean”.
Bobby Jean
By Bruce Springsteen
Well, I came by your house the other day
Your mother said you went away
She said there was nothing that I could have done
There was nothing nobody could say
Me and you, we’ve known each other
Yeah, ever since we were sixteen
I wished I would have known
I wished I could have called you
Just to say “Goodbye, Bobby Jean”
Now you hung with me when all the others turned away turned up their nose
We liked the same music
We liked the same bands
We liked the same clothes
We told each other that we were the wildest
The wildest things we’d ever seen
Now I wished you would have told me
I wished I could have talked to you
Just to say “Goodbye, Bobby Jean”
Now we went walking in the rain
Talking about the pain from the world we hid
Now there ain’t nobody, nowhere, nohow
Gonna ever understand me the way you did
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Well maybe you’ll be out there on that road somewhere
In some bus or train traveling along
In some motel room there’ll be a radio playing
And you’ll hear me sing this song
Well if you do, you’ll know I’m thinking of you
And all the miles in between
And I’m just calling one last time, not to change your mind
But just to say “I miss you. Good luck. Goodbye, Bobby Jean”
Everyone who knew Pat (PJ), knew that her favorite artist was Bruce Springsteen…..Well, Bruce, PJ and I go back a bit….Back to September 1984! I met PJ when she walked into our Y Dance Aerobics class elated because she was able to score Springsteen concert tickets. I quickly responded…..ME TOO! Well, since that day, we’ve gone together to as many Bruce Concerts as we could, as well as several beach vacays, cruises, movies, theatre performances, and of course, countless Margarita Nights!
Bruce wrote the song Bobby Jean for his best friend and it quickly became our tribute song to each other! Here’s to you PJ, I’ll Miss You “Bobby Jean”.
Bobby Jean
By Bruce Springsteen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_zqM8H1JI54
Pat will be missed! Her warm and loving spirit will be with me forever and I will hold close to my heart all the wonderful memories I have of my friend, especially those when we were traveling. My fun-loving friend now has her wings!
God Bless the Family.
Pat was a wonderful co-worker and a really great person! She will definitely be missed! She touched a lot of hearts over the years and was really larger than life!
Pat was an amazing woman, full of laughter and light. She was a friend to many, a stranger to none. Her laughter was infectious and she was able to command the attention of the audience with grace. She was a true leader and a visionary. She will be dearly missed.
So sorry to here about Pat we went to Rock High School together!! She will be deeply missed!! Prayers for all the Family!!
Betty Fisher Lenceski
Oh PJ- I have never forgotten your military organization and your cheerful way of keeping all of us wayward residents (and chief residents) all in line! The world will be a little dimmer without your endearing and perfectly bossy sunshine.