Saturday, January 15, 2022. Dear son of Paul and Molly Xenakis (nee: Diffley) Dear brother of Alana, Andrew and Kate Xenakis. Our dear grandson, nephew, cousin and friend to many.
SERVICES: Funeral from Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Road on Saturday, January 22, 9:15 a.m. to St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church for 10:00 a.m. service. Visitation at Kutis Affton Friday 4 – 8 p.m.
It is with a heavy heart, that I send my deepest condolences to all of Ryan’s loved ones. I am praying for you and will keep you all close to my heart.
Dearest Molly and Family, J.D. and I, have no words ( we are speechless, ) our heart aches for you, Stay strong. With Great Respect, Your two Oldies but Goodies.J.D. & Me
I’m so very sorry for your loss
I am sincerely sorry about your loss he was always kind hearted always had a smile on his face and always put a smile on mine as well. Every time I saw Ryan I never had one bad interaction with him and he always made he laugh. He was such a great person and a overall amazing human being and that carried on from you guys so keep pushing day by day he will always be in our hearts and he’s always looking down on your family for the better. Love you guys and your in my prayers.
So sorry for your loss! Praying for the family
Lifting you up in prayer for strength. Thinking of you through tears.
Hey Ryan , it sucks to see you go so soon , it was me , you , Deja , Emily and jalen all at ILC basically running that school lol, you was literally the only person I allowed to call me by my last name which is “green”, you was so smart and so funny and my favorite partner in construction , I love you Xenakis until we meet again ❤️, we only communicated with each other by last name , your forever in my heart and will FOREVER be my friend
-Mikaylah Green
Our deepest sympathy. Our heart is broken for you and your family. Sending thoughts and prayers.
The Donnelly’s
Our hearts are with you all
Molly I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Our deepest sympathy to your family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please let us know if we can do anything to help. Much love, Puppingham Palace .
So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Ryan. May he Rest In Peace. May his memory be a blessing.
Condolences and prayers for your loss.
Sending Prayers and I want to offer my condolences to your family.Ryan was a great friend to my son Rico Terry Jr. c/o 2017 he died in June 2021.
I love you so much Ryan. You will always be considered as family to the Windmueller’s . We miss you so much
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers have been with your family.
A shocking, tragic loss.
Condolence.
Molly and Family
Sorry for your loss!!!!!
Lots of prayers to you and family
Paul and Chrissy and family. I’m so sorry for your loss! I have no other words.
Dear Xenakis Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you deepest condolences and prayers for comfort, strength and peace.
My heart breaks for your family. I’m deeply sorry for this terrible loss. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
All my love.
Dear Molly and family, I’m thinking of you daily and can not imagine your grief.
Ryan was a sweet person. I only have the fondest memories of Ryan.
Love ❤️
Molly, Paul and family,
I know that words cannot ease your pain but want you to know
I am so sorry for your loss.
You are always in my prayers and heart. ❤️
Dear Molly, we were so sorry to hear of your sons passing. If there is anything you need send us a message.❤️❤️
Molly and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. There is nothing worse than the loss of your child. Be gentle with yourselves it’s not an easy journey, nor one anyone wants to take. Prayers for all of you.
I have had such a heavy heart since I heard the news that Ryan passed. It seems forever ago that I had him in my 5th grade classroom at Geggie Elementary, but he is not someone I will ever forget. He had a wonderful sense of humor, an unforgettable smile, and I specifically remember his love of dogs. He would often come visit me and always had a hug for me….he loved talking about his Geggie memories We would laugh about the mischief he got into … and I would remind him that his big heart always outshined his antics. He has left an unforgettable stamp on my heart, and I am so sad for all those who now mourn his loss. May you all feel out Savior’s arms around you in the days and weeks ahead. With deepest sympathy and love, Mrs. Tiffany Hutchinson
I knew Ryan when I worked at LSMS and Eureka. I was a Special Ed teacher, and Ryan would always come down to my class to play games with my students and help out. He was kind and caring- just an awesome young man. I’ll never forget one time when I was 8 months pregnant (and huge) and I mentioned something about being pregnant and he told me he had no idea. He was just kind like that- always made people feel good about themselves. I am absolutely devastated by this loss and will pray for your family during this time. I will always remember Ryan and his kindness.
Molly I heard about your son. As a Mother that has buried a child my heart breaks for you. There are no words to tell you how sorry I am for you to face this loss. Hold on Molly.
Hey Ryan, I just wanted to let you know your a great guy, free spirited and full of life… heaven is gaining a wonderful soul to soon. my prayers for your whole family and you brother… wish i was home so we could have hung out just one more time, love u man. have some fun up there…
We are deeply heartbroken for your loss. May our Lord comfort and strengthen your family during this time. May your memories be filled with the love and laughter that Ryan brought to your lives.
Ryan was the sweetest soul , he always had a smile on. Our family is so sorry to hear of his passing . Prayers to the family . He will be missed. Rest In Peace Ryan
The Jesse family has such wonderful memories of Ryan running through our house with Andrew in tow. The beautiful blonde headed boy who was always wise for his age and always made me laugh. Our hearts are broken for your loss. May God wrap His loving arms around you in your time of pain and grief. May He give you the peace that surpasses understanding in the coming days. We love you.
My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family Paul.
Molly, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son and your family. May God comfort all of you in this incredibly difficult time.
Molly and family, we are so sorry to hear about Ryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Hugs to you all
Our deepest condolences to the Xenakis family. We are so saddened by the loss of Ryan, he will be very missed.
Prayers, hugs and love to you all.
Our deepest condolences to the Xenakis family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God bless you.
The Hartigan Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
I am deeply sorry for your loss. It’s been years since I last saw Ryan at Geggie and I remembered him looking so happy visiting with his old teachers. Its been many years since I had him in 3rd grade and seeing him again at that time doing so well, with his big smile, was such a treat.
Praying for you and your family❤️
Molly and family we are so sorry for your loss. God doesn’t give us more than we can handle. I feel your pain having lost a son 20 years ago. Keep his memories close to your heart. Praying for peace and comfort for you all.
Molly, I am so sorry to hear of Ryans passing. Sending prayers for you and your family. With deepest condolences and sympathy, Erin
Dear Molly and Family
We are sick to hear of Ryan’s passing. He was such a sweet boy and gentlemen. You raised him right.
The Hooper’s
Dear Molly and Family
We are sick to hear of Ryan’s passing. He was such a sweet boy and gentlemen. You raised him right.
The Hooper’s
Molly and Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you guy’s. Ryan was a great friend to my Son Ricky Eckert. Ryan was always sweet and kind when he was around our house and I thought of him as my own. Every time I seen him out he would make it a point to come say Hi with a hug. He will be greatly missed. Prayers to you and your family
Our sincerest condolences to the Xenakis family. So very sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
My sympathies to all,
I’m shaking my head in disbelief over the loss of your dear son, Ryan. My heart bleeds for you. Words are inadequate to express my sadness. May God grant you & your family the ability & strength to go forward from here in Ryan’s loving memory.
Molly, Paul, and Family,
We are truely so sorry for your loss. Ryan always went out of his way to just say hi and have a nice conversation with me. I always walked away and just thought, what a great kid. I’ll think of him often and those conversations. RIP my friend. Our deepest prayers are with all of you and your family. Surround yourself with friends and family and stay strong.
Dan and Gina Hahn Family
I remember when we all first met we instantly started cracking jokes towards each other, play fighting each other and etc but we all had each other’s back right or wrong. I remember when I first started going to eureka I was really skeptical but You and our friend group changed lot of things for me and also taught me alot of things, I mean that’s what brothers do. Honestly that 7 years went by fast, we’ll never forget all the times we got in trouble together, crazy nights, long nights and fun nights. You and your family will always be our family. I love you bro!! Until we meet again
Dear neighbor Paul, dear tennis pupil Kate… the whole Xenakis family,
Words fall short of expressing our sadness over the passing of Ryan. Please accept our deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences on your profound loss. Whatever you need, whenever you need it, you know our door (so close to yours) is always open for you.
Laura & Javier
So so sorry for your loss. There isn’t anything I can say to make it better. Praying for your broken hearts to heal
May God bring peace to all who loved Ryan. We have all of you in our prayers for God’s comfort when trying to understand why he was taken so soon. Just know our love, sympathy, and condolences go out to all of you during the most difficult times.
Molly and family ,
My heart hurts for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. I have no words to take your pain away, all I can tell you , I am praying for you constantly
I love you. If you need me for anything , please call
Love you girly
Michele Jackson
Extending our deepest sympathy to Paul, Molly, & Xenakis Family at this difficult time of loss.
We are sharing in your sadness as you remember Dear Ryan. Sending healing prayers, love, & comforting hugs. May God Bless You All! May Ryan, Rest in Peace.
May God be with all of your family during this very sad time. You will be in our prayers.
Dear Molly and family,
I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your wonderful son! Ryan was a soul with a pure heart. He was special and brought joy to so many.
He will live on in the hearts of those who loved him.
May God comfort you and your family!
With Love,
Jennifer (Wolff) Winkeler
Its nothing like losing a close friend/ brother that you known just about all your life. I Remember our first time meeting each other fighting on Geggie Elementary School playground at recess the principle came and picked us up by our shirts and made us play together lol.That’s been my boy every since then, I had so many memories made with this family just because of Ryan you guys will always have a spot in my heart. No mater how much time has passed Ryan was always a brother to me till we meet again my boy ❤️
Paul and Molly, we are so sorry to hear this tragic news. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Hyland Family
Our deepest condolences to Molly and Paul’s family and to our cousin, Gayle, Ryan’s grandmother. Many prayers coming your way from Louisville, Kentucky. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
I’ve been trying to find the words to say to help bring peace to the family of Ryan. My deepest condolences go to Molly and the rest of the family. Ryan had a big impact in my life as we grew together through different stages. He had such a pure soul and kind heart, he will forever be missed and loved. My family and I our gracious of the time we were able to spend and get to know Ryan, God bless your family.
Dear Molly, my most sincere & deepest condolences to you & your family. You are all in my prayers.
Todd and I are deeply sorry for your loss. Both of us look back fondly at times spent at the baseball fields with the Xenakis family. I pray God sends you comfort and strength to carry forward.
Forever will be loved and looked up to as another brother. Continue to watch over us all up there Ry. Words can’t describe how heartbroken we all are. LLRX
Xenakis family, I am so sorry about the loss of your Ryan. We are thinking about you and sending you lots of love, prayers, hugs and comfort during this difficult time.
Paul,
Our deepest prayers and condolences to you, and your family.
Not a day has gone by that I don’t think about this family. Ryan had such a big heart. My mom and I always enjoyed watching the little sisters play softball with Molly and Ryan. He was such an amazing brother and friend. Always checking on everyone, always offering a helping hand. Molly, Paul, Andrew, and Kate, please know that he is watching over you all. I am praying for you all, and I love you all so much. I am just so sorry.
We send our condolences and support to Paul and all of Ryan’s family. May the united power of this family’s love for Ryan and for one other bring strength and peace to each of you.
Molly and Family,
Thinking of you with heavy hearts today. Ryan, his beloved family and cherished friends are in our prayers. With our most sincere condolences, Bob, Kathy and Andrew Boyer
I got to make a lot of memories over the years hanging out with Ryan and the Legends Bluff crew. Ryan had a great heart and made everyone feel like his best friend. He sure will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys right now.
Paul and Molly,
Words cannot express my sadness at the loss of Ryan.
I pray God brings you peace at this difficult time.
Matt
Our deepest sympathy to Paul, Molly and Xenakis family. May God comfort all of you in this difficult season of life.
My son and Ryan were friends.
It was on several occasions Ryan would visit our house. I had the pleasure of getting more acquainted with Ryan when he adopted Josie his dog. I helped him train her and guide him to make her an obedient good friend . I was impressed by his commitment and love that he shared for his dog. He always had a gentle, kind spirit about him. When he visited he would always offer his assistance at the ranch. He was a genuine nice guy.
He will be missed greatly.
My heart goes out to Paul, Molly, & their entire Xenakis family, during this time. I’m truly sorry for your loss.
My heart goes out to Paul, Molly, & the entire Xenakis family, during this time. I’m truly sorry for your loss.
My heart breaks for you Gayle. My prayers are with you. Much love from all of us at Cape Albeon!
Xenakis Family,
Our hearts go out to you during this time, and we are so sorry for your loss. Ryan was an amazing person and friend. Whenever Ryan came over to our house, he would always say Hi, play with and joke around with our kids-they never left him alone! They always looked forward to seeing him. Ryan always lended a helping hand and was just a phone call away. We are so grateful to have known Ryan and to have experienced this life with him in it! He was a good soul-one of a kind!
Love, The Leuthausers- Jeremy, Julianna, Noah, and Ava
Paul – My sincerest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. There are no words to make this any better, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and hopefully time can heal
Sending love and prayers to your family.
Molly, Andrew and Kate, long-distance hugs from the Kerr family. May God hold you in His hands and give you comfort during this time. We are so sorry to hear about your loss of Ryan.
I am so truly saddened by your loss. I’m still trying to wrap my head around how we can lose someone so young and full of life! Please know that your loss weighs heavily on my heart and your family is in my thoughts and prayers daily. May the sweet memories of Ryan always comfort you and your family. ❤️
Our deepest sadness and sympathy on the loss of your son. Our hearts go out to your family.
Our deepest sympathy and sadness on the loss of your son. Our hearts go out to your family.
To the Xenakis family our hearts are broken for the tragic loss of your son Ryan. Please know that we are thinking of you and pray that God gives you the courage and strength to get you through this most difficult time.
Our sincere condolences the Ruggiero family
My sincerest condolences Molly. I wish I’d known sooner to have been there for you to pay my respects. My sweet friend you and your family have been heavy on my mind. Please know you’re in my thoughts and prayers ❤️
Paul and Family, there are no words that can truely express how deeply sorry I am for the sudden loss of Ryan. He will always be with you, in your hearts and memories. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.