May, Cynthia A (née Haas) Thursday Dec. 29 surrounded by her loving family after a long battle with cancer. Born April 10, 1952 to Shirley (Goalby) Haas and Harlan J. Haas of Belleville Ill. Predeceased by her Grandparents George & Helen (Towers) Goalby, Oliver & Amelia (Mueller) Haas, Uncle Bob (Arlene) Goalby (2022), father Harlan (1982) and husband Pat Reineck (1999). Survived by her mother Shirley of Belleville Il., brothers Jay (Jan) Haas of Greer, SC and Jerry (Elizabeth) Haas of Winston-Salem NC, husband Joe May, step children Teresa Reineck of St. Louis, Paul Reineck of St. Louis, Patrick (Laura) May of St. Louis, Bridget (Matt) O’Hara of Springfield MO, and Corey (Lindsey) May of Chicago Il.
Graduate of Belleville West HS and Jewish school of Nursing. As a registered nurse for 46 years in the BJC system, Cindy served countless patients and their families with loving care.
Cindy had a unique charm and style that endeared her to all who met her. She never met a stranger.
Intensely proud of her family, Cindy was a tireless booster of Wake Forest Golf and a pretty good player herself, competing in junior and high school golf at Belleville West. Her Fun-tastics Tuesday morning league will miss her play and leadership dearly.
The self-proclaimed ‘luckiest girl in the world’ she was an eternal optimist who never had a ‘bad day’. Cindy will be dearly missed for her decorating advice and organizational talents. A place for everything and everything in its place, she always had a full pantry and a pot of soup on the stove. She could host a party at the drop of a hat.
Cindy was adored by her 6 grandchildren who enjoyed many and varied adventures to landmarks near and far with their ‘Cindy and Popo’.
If the sun was shining Cindy was soaking it up, following it to Florida each winter with her loving husband, and excellent driver, Joe.
She had a strong maternal instinct and never missed a teaching opportunity. She wanted her kids and grandkids to know how to sew, bake, and handle a broom.
Cindy had strong relationships with her co-workers and friends on both sides of the river. In any crowd, it was a matter of minutes before she ran into someone she knew. Cindy will be dearly missed by her many nieces and nephews who sought her thoughtful advice and loving touch often. Her generosity was boundless.
Cindy had a wonderful sense of humor and a beautiful outlook on life, pondering: ‘What if the hokey pokey really is what it’s all about’
Cindy was cremated in accordance with her wishes.
Special thanks to BJC Home Health nurses and therapists for their care and encouragement.
Memorial donations can be sent directly to BJ College Goldfarb School of Nursing Compassion Fund (barnesjewishcollege.edu)
Services: A memorial mass is scheduled for Sat. Jan, 28 at noon. St. Catherine Laboure Church 9740 Sappington Rd. 63128. Celebration of life at Liuna Event Center (4532 S. Lindbergh Blvd, Sunset Hills, MO 63127) 1-4 PM.
Finding it hard to get my feelings around this She was a great lady
What a shock. She was so full of life that it is hard to believe she is gone. She touched so many
Cindy was an amazing mentor, coworker, friend and nurse. She taught me so much. I will miss her so much
What a beautiful tribute to Cindy –
May she rest in peace .
Sending prayers to help you in your grief
Journey.
Ann (Kilker) Roberts
So sorry to hear. Please accept my condolences.
Cindy would have been a nurse 50 years this month.
Eternal rest grant unto her oh Lord & let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace.
Kathy (Austermann) Bumberry
Jewish Hospital School of Nursing
Class of 1973
I have so many wonderful memories of our years we shared at JH. Cindy was such a compassionate nurse with the biggest smile, making everyone feel comfortable. One of the best mentors I was blessed to have during my nursing career. Thanks for the wonderful memories, my friend. RIP Cindy❤️
Cindy’s essence was totally captured in this beautiful tribute. She was the “hostess with the mostest” at all times. She was the nurse and friend we all aspired to be like.
You are so missed, my friend!
Cindy was like loving arms around me when my husband died and told me life will go on but you have to go out and find it. I didn’t see her much after Ken died but I’ll never forget her words! Will never forget her and her kind loving compassion!Rest in peace with God !
I will miss you my wonderful friend and mentor! Cindy was an awesome nurse and mentor. She loved life and so many times would say “can you believe my life? How everything works out?” She taught me so much about life and how to relate to people. She knew everyone and remembered details about them, and made us all feel special. Hugs and prayers to Joe and the whole family
What a touching tribute to such a beautiful soul, both inside and out. I have so many great memories of working with Cindy at JH. She certainly was a nurse that was admired by her coworkers, doctors and patients. Cindy will be missed by anyone who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. RIP Cindy!❤️
She was such a good friend. So much so she became my daughter Amanda’s god-mother.
That’s how much we loved her.
From the fourth floor of the Jewish dormitory in 1970 till the day she died, she was our dear friend.
We will miss her dearly but God has her now. Rest now sweet lady.
Special thanks to Joe May for his loving care.❤️
My friend and my sister’s best friend Cathy Robinson were somewhat inseparable. I will always love her and thank her for everything she has done for my sister and our family. I will always love you and have thanks to you for being not only my sister’s but my friend also. Thank you for being a big part of my life and journey through nursing! I will keep you in my memories forever. Thank you for teaching my sister how to play golf!!!! Love with you always Cindy. Thank you for being part of my life.
It was like Cindy had an invisible, sparkling Tiara at all times, and anyone lucky enough to come into her glow never forgot the moment. She made an ordinary day so much more fun.❤
Always a bright spot in the days we worked together, her energy and confidence with patients and staff alike. Rest now my friend, fair winds and following seas, we have the watch now.
Cindy was always so kind and gracious. When talking, she made you feel as if you were the only person in the world. So sorry to hear that this beautiful lady has left us, and my deepest sympathies to the family.
Rick & Sue Haas
What a beautiful tribute to a unique lady. She was always so inclusive, asking details about your life, that she would always remember! She touched so many peoples’ hearts and will be deeply missed.
In my 42 year nursing career I have had the privilege and honor to work with many talented and charismatic employees. Cindy is one of the best – always a glass half full kind of person, not half empty. Her upbeat personality always brightened my day. On her passing, I pay homage to her especially, and to all those in health care who make a difference in so many lives. Thanks Cindy.
Cindy was an outstanding nurse and a special friend to many. She was always a positive influence on her co workers and patients, and will be missed by many. Rest in peace Cindy.
Cindy was my friend through life. We met many challenges together. This is, by far, going to be my biggest challenge – to live in a world without her.
Thank you, Joe May, for your love and care these last several months of her life. There was no one who meant more to her.
Cindy was always a smiling face at work, at a party or just a chance meeting anywhere. She brought joy everywhere she went.
Our friend Cindy had the most expansive wing span of anyone I know. She used those wings to shelter those in sorrow, those with new beginnings, those who needed guidance and those that didn’t realize how much they needed her. You, Cindy, my friend, will be missed by the so many heart’s that you touched. May you rest is peace and may the eternal wings of angels lift you up and wrap you in their arms. Joe May, you are so very awesome and thank you for the love and care you bestowed upon your best friend and ours. My love to everyone in your family. PS Sorry I ate 1/2 the broiled brown sugar bacon you served at one of our luncheons! You winked at me in approval and made my day!!
Cindy was like no other. Her sense of humor, and quick wit made even the most stressful work situations possible. She was always welcoming and kind, and knowledgeable about everything, and I learned a lot from her. She was never a complainer, and was always upbeat and fun. Her beautiful smile and presence will be missed.
What a beautiful life journey Cindy created. It is remarkable how many people she inspired and blessed over the years. Our beloved friend held us all with one gigantic embrace!
Until we meet again …
Prayers and condolences to all her family. What an amazing person and nurse. Taught so much to so many. Was a major role model for many, including me. So brave. So very kind. May she forever Rest In Peace.
Every memory of this beautiful lady will make us smile. God Bless
I am so sorry to receive this news
Cindy and I go back to grade school. Always upbeat and liked by everyone
My deepest sympathy for all those who love her. Cindy was a delight at work. I was with my mom near the end of my mom’s life and Cindy was still encouraging patients and presenting a big ole smile. ❤️
Cindy will always be remembered for her compassion towards patients and everyone. She was a co conspirator of mine surprising my wife on her 40th birthday. Always a pleasure to see her at JH or at the golf course. She will be missed by all who knew her
To Cindy’s family,
Every single person whoever met Cindy left that meeting with a positive outlook. I knew Cindy since 1979 at Jewish Hospital and not one day did she bring anything negative to the table- the Queen of networking 24/7, she always knew somebody who knew somebody who could get what you needed. She will be missed , but never forgotten. Cindy, the next time we meet, promise me that you, Uncle Bob , and I will tee it up for 18 .
Bill Hayes RN
Please.rest in peace my beautiful friend. I am compelled to thank you for helping me keep it real
In my early years as a young nurse I always worried about what else could go wrong?Cindy,simply put would say take a deep breath. We will get through this together. I pray we always will.
She always wore a smile…. and shared it with the world. Peace within her soul
I grew up playing on the St. Clair golf team with Cindy and Jay. Very sorry to hear this news. Prayers for the family.
My sympathy to her family as she was a friend from high school and a nurse that was there when I needed her- May she rest in peace .
Cindy was one of the classiest persons I’ve ever met. She was a kind, friendly, beautiful human being. I believe the gates of Heaven were wide open to receive this beautiful soul.
If they had Title 9,when Cindy was growing up,Cindy would have played major woman’s college golf.Cindy was that good!
A beautiful soul.Cindy will be sorely missed.
You thought that you were the luckiest girl in the world. But we were the lucky ones to have had you in our lives.
I will miss you so much.
Nance
Nancy Spehr
Cindy was a great person she will be missed by myself and all her friends in the medical profession
Mike Ryan
What a heartfelt tribute to a beautiful soul! I can find no better words than what has already been said by those whose life she touched!
Each of our unique memories will be treasured in our hearts forever…
I know Jesus is saying “well done my good and faithful servant” so
Rest in Peace now, dear friend, in the loving arms of Jesus❣️
Bob and I have known Cindy a very long time from JH- JHSON educated many skilled, caring nurses for certain, and she fit right in. She has earned rest after her health challenges- rest in peace, Cindy.
Cindy was the kindest, most optimistic and loving person that I have ever met. She was a fantastic nurse and always made my day better when we worked together. She changed how I view the world, and I will be forever grateful that I knew her.
We all are now somehow lessened by Cindy’s passing. That bright smile; that personality, in their own ways, gave us courage as well as they lifted us up. Our memories of her all seem to be about her positive outlook and her opportunistic sense of humor. Those who know the joke will understand that Our Lady of Perpetual Shopping will be sorely missed.
I’m very sorry Joe. Cindy was such an upbeat lady. My prayers!!!
So sorry for your loss Joe, although I only met Cindy a few times she seemed like a beautiful person! Will keep you and the family in our prayers.
Shirley and Jay, my sincere sympathy in the loss of your daughter and sister. God bless to you all.
My deepest condolences. Cindy was kind, inclusive and fun loving who’s friendship and thoughtfulness will never be forgotten. What a gift to have been an acquaintance of hers. I will miss her dearly. Rest in peace my friend.
Cindy was a lovely lady, so caring and supportive. It was a great pleasure to be in her company.
We will all miss you, Cindy. You are with God now. That’s a consoling thought.
I was so impressed with Cindy when she was a student nurse. Just from briefly talking to her myself or watching her interact with others, I knew she would be an outstanding nurse. She was a born leader with that positive outlook, radiant smile and engaging personality.
Whenever I asked her help for anything through the years, she’d say “sure”. I never had to give the task another thought. When Cindy said she’d take care of anything, it was taken care of totally and completely. She was amazing.
Cindy will be missed by so many people including me.
My heartfelt condolences to her family and many, many friends.
Cindy will be missed.
The service for Cindy was beautiful. A fitting celebration of life for a wonderful woman who was so full of life. The room was filled with love- for Cindy, her family, and each other. One thought came to my mind: while the hall was filled with all of Cindy’s family and friends, you’d need countless halls to fill all of the patients and families Cindy helped during her years of service as a RN at Barnes-Jewish Hospital.
Thank you Joe and family for sharing your time of grief with us, so we could grieve with you.
All of our love, Kelly and Neil Coppinger.