Passed away December 13th, 2022 at age 60.
Beloved wife of Mark Markham; loving mother of Stephanie Markham; cherished grandmother of Lucita Markham; dear sister of Victoria (Joel) Corman, Patricia (the late Peter) Arkoulis, Cynthia De Geare, and Robert Ellinger; dear aunt, cousin, and friend to everybody.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in honor of Rebecca to American Cancer Society are greatly appreciated.
Without your smile the days are never going to shine as bright again.
42 years together still feels like we were just getting started.
Rest, my love.
Rest in peace my beautiful sister.You may have gone,but you will never be forgotten.I loved you dearly through our lives together,and I will love you always.I will always love you sis
Rest in peace Becky, you are greatly missed by all!
I have absolutely no words. I loved Becky for her smile, her warm acceptance. The easy welcoming weirdness she embodied. I’ve known anyone else who could so streamlessly intertwine Nightmare Before Christmas with Chibi cuteness of Japanese pop culture, but Becky could. There is a light missing from this world. Rest in Peace my Work-Mom (even if I never knew how to say it).
I’m so sorry for your loss Stephanie and Mark. Becky was a wonderful person. I remember knocking on the door to see if Stephanie could come out and play and her always answering the door with a smile.
My deepest condolences to Mark and the whole Markham family. Although I only knew Becky for a real short time, she will be missed.
PEACE AND EVERLASTING JOY
Cry no more, no, not for me
…unless they be tears of joy.
If you could see what my eyes see,
…your faith it would be buoyed,
because where I stand and where I am
…is so beautiful and peaceful,
so full of love and everlasting joy,
…a place for all of God’s people.
Little girls and boys have real joy.
…It doesn’t elude them here.
I’m with those we loved and those we lost
…and those we held so dear.
So think of me and smile not cry,
…because here there are no voids.
What I have found and can never lose
…is peace and everlasting joy.
Rest in Peace!
My sincere condolences. Rest in peace, Becky. It’s hard to believe that you passed away. Just had the chatting with you two days before I heard the news. You will be missed, for sure. Sending my prayers to Markham family to process the shock.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Becky was a sweet person and a fun neighbor. She will be missed.
One of the most beautiful souls to grace the earth. A smile that was always there. A caring heart that never wavered. I’m honored to have grown up knowing you. May you rest in peace and love.
Very sorry to hear the sad news. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family. I will always remember the Great pie that she gave me at Christmas.
My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to you in this time of great loss. Mark, I wish I could have met your amazing Lady. I pray the Lord wraps you and your family in peace and comfort for the days to come and beyond.
I’’m so sorry to hear of your loss! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers! May you find peace and comfort.
Rejoice, for now she is surrounded by your perfect love for all time.
Becky, your presence around the workplace will be greatly missed. I’ve enjoyed the time we have had to better get to know one another. My deepest condolences to Mark, family, and friends.
Mark, so sad to hear the news. My thoughts are with you and Stephanie as you celebrate the wonderful times and memories you all shared with Becky. She will always be with you both.
Mark and Stephanie,
We are so sorry for your loss. I grew up with the Ellinger’s. Whatever pain or suffering she experienced is now over. She is now sleeping, like Lazarus was, in Jehovah’s memory. We long for the time when the resurrection will reunite us with our loved ones.
Becky was such a happy and very friendly person. A joy to be around. Sad to hear she is gone. My prayers go out to the family.
You only had to know Becky for ten minutes to feel the warmth and kindness she radiated. She clearly loved and was incredibly proud of her family, and I know that she will be terribly missed.
I have no words to express the deep sadness in my heart losing you. Though we both were so busy just trying to keep up with our lives that we may not have reached out, know that you were always in my thoughts and know I loved you.
Many beautiful memories of you my sister and I do and will miss you Becky.
So sad to hear she passed, a beautiful person – rest in peace