Kayman, Brian M. Thursday, November 19, 2020
Beloved husband of Lori A. Kayman (nee: Surgant) for 30 years. Loving father of Brett (Sarah) Kayman. Dear son of Sidney and the late Suzann Kayman. Dear brother of Frances Kayman, brother-in-law of Arthur (Lori) Surgant, uncle of Jake, Danica and Joseph, great uncle, cousin and friend.
He was a lifelong St. Louis Blues fan.
Services: At a later date there will be a memorial to honor Brian. Memorial contributions to Bethesda Hospice Care, appreciated.
Lori, I love you and my heart is broken. Please tell me what i can do to assist you in any way. We all loved Brian. He was such a great guy! I am sorry you both were robbed of growing old with the love of your lives. I am here for you. Love, Quetta
So very sorry to learn of his passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Our love, prayers, and deepest sympathy to you Lori, Brett and Sarah, and your extended family. You will be in our hearts and prayers through this difficult time.
Love, Roy and Judy Casby
Brian was my friend first and my co-worker second. We were dedicated animal lovers. I was so looking forward to the arrival of his new puppy. Our family here at Bethesda Home Health and Hospice are devastated by this loss. Everyone is sending thoughts and prayers to family and hoping for an end to Covid.
I was saddened to hear this news today. He was known to me as “Sassy Ladue.” I have enjoyed our years of working together. Brian and I shared a cubby wall at work since being at the corporate office. I enjoyed getting to know him and hearing his funny stories that he shared. They were some of the best parts of my work day. He had a wonderful sense of humor and a kind heart. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family. He spoke of you all often and showed us all pictures of the newest fur babies and what they were up to while he was at work. His family was always on his mind. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
He was GREAT! I loved it when he would try to be so serious. I almost believed him at first. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Lori my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
I’ve worked with Brian from the beginning of Bethesda Hospice and he will be deeply MISSED
Lori, I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
There are so many that will miss Brian…we are all so sorry and send you our love and condolences. I will always remember his humor and willingness to lend a hand in any situation. Hugs.
Lori – I have no words! I am just heartbroken for you. Please know that I am here if you need anything. Prayers for comfort for you, Brett and Sarah.
Lori, I will forever remember Brian. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I have worked with Brian for over 15 years. I will miss him giving me his thoughts good or bad. He always made sure us girls were ok. He was like a second Dad to us.
Lori , my heart goes out to you and your family, Brian was loved by all of the staff at BHG, he will be missed !
Lori, I want to send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family for your loss. God bless your family during this difficult time.
Lori, I’m sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
My deepest condolences to Lori and Brett and the rest of his family. Truly a great loss.. We worked together for so many years and the memories we shared are endless. Rest in peace my friend.
I am so sorry for your loss. Like so many others experienced, Brian made work that much more enjoyable with his take on it all. He will be missed for so many reasons. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Lori,
My prayers are with you and Brett. Those that knew and loved him will never forget his sense of humor and his loyalty. He made a mark in those who knew him that cannot be erased. He will be greatly missed!
Brian may have been the very first person who knew I was pregnant with my daughter 14 years ago. I had just started Bethesda hospice care. I had been going to an infertility doctor, And literally took my pregnancy test at the old office. I came out screaming. Brian was there. I remember how awkwardly happy he was for me. I look back at it fondly now. Something I will never forget.
Like everyone else, Brian knew the answers to most questions. He was there through thick and thin.My heart is sad. My deepest condolences.
Lori, I loved your sweet Brian! Working together over the last six years at Bethesda Home Health and Hospice made us so much more than coworkers, we were family. He was one of my favorite people to see everyday, knowing that we were in the trenches together, doing everything we could from our desks to give excellent patient care. I knew when I went in the kitchen in the morning and smelled oatmeal, that he had been in there fixing his breakfast. I knew that when I got McDonald’s sandwiches two for $4, and left one on his desk, that he would give me a big smile later! I knew that when I came and knocked on the edge of his cubicle and he turned around with an annoyed look on his face, that he truly was not annoyed, but he was glad to see me. We’ve been through a lot of changes together and it drew us closer together. I cannot begin to imagine the loss that you and your family are experiencing. Please know that there are so many praying for you and your family! He will be so missed! I am so so sorry.
Lori, Words can not adequately express my heart felt sympathy for your immense loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God help you heal.
Lori- I can’t imagine what you and your family are going through. I just want to cry for you every time I think of you. If you need anything day or night don’t hesitate to reach out. Your friends are here to support you. Love you lots…..
Lori and family, I am so sorry to hear about Brian. I worked with Brian at Heartland Hospice and also Bethesda hospice. I always enjoyed talking to him about sports, especially the Blues. He always talked about his family. He was such a delight. I was devastated when I received the news of his passing. I will be praying God’s comfort to all of you. I know he will be deeply missed. God bless you!
Dear Lori and family,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Brian was a wonderful guy with a heart of gold. When I was a new employee with Bethesda Hospice, he was so kind and patient with me, helping me to learn the ropes. He liked to put on a grumpy face sometimes, but there was always a kind nature, a helping hand, and a joke just behind it. I’ll think of him in the places he loved most – on the beach in Mexico, at a Blues game, showing everyone pictures of his new puppy, and with you, who he loved so dearly.
My deepest condolences,
Julie
Lori,
I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was awesome to work with. Every time I asked for something out or the norm, he always found a way to make it happen. I appreciate his passion for his job. He will be missed terribly.
Love,
Susan Lebar
Lori, my heart breaks for you and your family. May God give you strength through this difficult time. If you need anything, at anytime, I’m here for you. Prayers and hugs.
Lori, I am so so sorry to hear about Brian. My prayers are with you and your family.
My deepest condolences on your loss and the loss to the Bethesda family. Brian was a wonderful mentor to me growing up in my early career years. Every morning it was “Yo B, Yo Shell” he replied. He was my go to for everything. Brian was so kind and always encouraging. He will be missed. May you find peace during this difficult time.
Lori, Ronie and I are so very sorry. We are sending our love and prayers.
My deepest sympathies to Lori and Brett. I worked with Brian for many years when I was at BHG. He was so kind, funny and hardworking. The one thing I found most endearing was that smile on his face. He instantly made you feel at ease and was so easy to talk to. He truly made a difference.
Lori, I want to extend my deepest condolences to you & Brett. You are in my prayers
Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I pray God will heal your grief.
Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Lori: I was so saddened to learn about Brian. I fondly remember you mentioning fun concerts and trips to the beach with him. I will be praying for you, Brett, and the rest of your family as I know Brian will be greatly missed.
With much love and caring thoughts,
Maureen
Lori
Prayers are lifted for strength and guidance
Always in my thoughts and prayers
Oh Lori….just learning of this. I pray the Lord surround you with a peace that passes all understanding. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers.