Alec Samuel Fister was born on March 22, 1994, in Colorado Springs, Co.; he died on January 12, 2022, at Saint Louis University Hospital. Giving selflessly in death as he did in life, Alec’s final act of kindness was his decision to donate life-saving organs through Mid-America Transplant.
Alec grew up in Barnhart, Mo. When he was only six years old, Alec began developing his passion and perseverance in the sport of football. A natural athlete, with a dedicated spirit of competition, Alec went on to play both offensive and defensive tackle positions for the Jefferson County Youth Association, while attending Freer Elementary School, in Barnhart. He joined the football teams for Windsor Middle School and then Windsor High School in Imperial, Mo., during which time he also trained at Elite Football Academy. As a varsity football player, Alec was honored with team All-Conference, All-District and All-Region distinctions, earned in 2009 and 2010. While he was a senior, Alec was recruited to play for William Jewel College, in Liberty, Mo., where he belonged to the Kappa Alpha fraternity. Later, he played for Missouri Baptist University, in St. Louis, where he also studied accounting. In 2015, Alec was selected as Missouri Baptist’s Offensive Lineman of the Year. His favorite professional football team was the Kansas City Chiefs, and Alec could be counted on for enjoying every game night with his friends and family all season long. Alec had plans in place for the coming months to share his love of the game and sportsmanship by coaching football to other aspiring young athletes and helping them to achieve their dreams, both on and off the field.
Alec loved his family, friends and fraternity brothers beyond measure. He never turned his back on those in need and wholeheartedly nurtured his relationships, whether new or lifelong, through unwavering encouragement and support. His friendships had no generational or geographical boundaries, and he developed lasting bonds, with teammates and coworkers alike, around the country. He worked at Parkway Electrical, before becoming a financial advisor for TD Ameritrade and Citibank to assist individuals of all ages in realizing economic security for themselves and their families.
Despite his imposing stature, Alec had an unmistakably genuine smile and empathetic gentleness that readily put the people he encountered at ease. Alec was often described by those who knew him as “the big guy with a heart of gold.” He exemplified kindness, generosity, tenacity and a drive to succeed, in both his personal and professional lives, and openly shared his knowledge, life experiences and resources to serve others, whenever possible and without hesitation. Alec’s legacy is the volumes of happiness, enthusiasm and compassion that he brought to life, and which will certainly live on in the many lives he has touched along the way.
Alec is survived by his father, Bob Fister, of St. Louis, Mo.; his mother, Samantha (and Michael) Spaeth, (nee Shipley), of Braselton, Ga.; his sister, Bailey Fister (and fiancé Alex Hoese), of St. Louis; his grandparents Mike and Chris Verplancke, of St. Louis; his uncles Eric (and Becky) Fister, Adam (and Stacey) Fister, Mike Jr. (and Marion) Verplancke and Danny (and Caitlin) Verplancke; his girlfriend Meghan Dismang, of Imperial, Mo., as well as his many cousins, friends, classmates, teammates and colleagues.
He is preceded in death by his loving grandmother, Nancy Shipley (nee Groaning), and his aunt Shannon (and uncle Rob) Oldham (nee Shipley).
Visitation will be held, on Tuesday, Jan. 18, from 4-9 p.m. at Kutis Funeral Home, 5525 Lemay Ferry, St. Louis.
Funeral services on Wednesday, Jan. 19, will begin at 9:30 a.m. at Kutis, with a procession to Immaculate Heart of Mary, 4092 Blow St., St. Louis, for 10 a.m. mass, performed by Rev. Aaron Nord. Burial procession will follow to Sts. Peter and Paul Cemetery (Chapel), 7030 Gravois, St. Louis.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Windsor High School football program for a scholarship fund in memory of Alec and directed to Windsor High School, Attn: Chris Martin (Alec Fister Football Scholarship Fund), 6208 Hwy. 61-67, Imperial, MO 63052-2311.
Alec was one of the most uniquely great personalities I’ve ever had the honor of being alongside. Truly the funniest guy I have met and he didn’t even have to try to be. Breaks my heart to see him go, but I know he is in a better place now. I will always remember his demeanor and attitude when surrounded by the ones he loved. I’m blessed to have been alongside him throughout one of the most formative and impactful experiences in my life. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Alec’s great smile lit up the room. He was an amazing man, taken from us far to soon. May he Rest In Peace in Heaven filled with love and happiness. Prayers for his family.
Love in prayers to the Fister family as well as everyone one else he touched with his big heart I hope at this time there is someway for the family to find peace and comfort I will never forget him as he was the most greatful truthful honest and loving friend I ever had fly high Alec we will all miss you until we meet again I will always remember our fun arguments over football and all the hilarious fun memories we made Rest In Peace your Friend Riley
Alec was always respectful and nice to all. He will be missed by all that knew him.
i found alec to be a genuinely nice person. my condolences to all his family!
Alec was an AMAZING person more like a big brother to me, it hurts my heart to see you gone so soon brother, you really touched my life and many others. I’ve never had one bad thing to say about Alex only wonderful joyful memories and I’ll cherish them forever, I’m sorry to see this my friend
Fister was always super nice. He was pretty funny in the classes we shared in high school. He will be greatly missed
Alec was such a gentle giant. He loved his family deeply and his friends. I never saw him without a smile on his face. My heart goes out to his mother Sam and his little sister Bailey. It is hard to wrap your mind around such a loss. Keeping Sam in my prayers as there is no greater loss than that of a child.
Alec was much loved by so many people. Though we were not able to see each other often because of distance he was in my prayers always. May he find the peace he was searching for.
Our sympathy and love to Bob, Sam and Bailey.
Aunt Joan, Uncle Neal, Lena, Kris and Cheryl Lewis
Offering our deepest sympathies God bless the family and may God have mercy on his soul and may He rest in peace.
Great kid, gone way too soon. You were always fun to be around and it was a pleasure to know you. You will be forever remembered in our hearts. Bob, Dana, Bobby and Lauren Gamache. Prayers to your family and friends during this time of sorrow.
My prayers are with Alec’s family. God will give you the strength you need to get through this overwhelming time. Alec’s spirit is with you all. I wish you ️ peace.
Cynthia Perry
Bob’s fraternal cousin
My heartfelt condolences to the Fister family. May Alec rest in peace.
My mind and heart are both full of confusion and hurt.
I know there are no words I can say to take any of this away.
Bob and Sam you helped pick the name for my son.
Through the last 10 years we have all drifted apart and gone in separate directions, but one thing has remained the constant… I know where I came from and I know who my family is.
And though we are not hanging out all the time, we are all still family.
Please know that I love you both and I am truly sorry for your loss!
Alec achieved soo many great things. There is alot to be proud of and great memories to remember