Diemler, Christopher Patrick, Monday, March 8, 2021. Beloved husband of Claire Diemler (nee Fischer); loving father of Henry and Lucy; cherished son of Sandra and the late Iven Diemler; dearest brother of Keith and Jeffrey Diemler; dear son-in-law of Kathleen Fischer and Theodore G. Fischer Jr.; dear brother-in-law of Theodore C. Fischer, Theresa (Charles) Dobson, Catherine (Travis) Cearley, and Ann Fischer (Michael Buchheit); dear uncle of Grace, Dorothy, Fischer, Luke, Sunny and Joe.
Chris was defined by his love for family and friends. He shared many stories of growing up in Lee’s Summit. Chris talked about the excellence of his father, the patience of his mother, and the broken bones, competitions, and love of his brothers. He would do anything for Claire’s family and they loved him. Chris was a kind, loyal, and generous friend to many people throughout his life.
Chris spent his days showing his love to his wife and children. He was amazed by Henry and Lucy and was always thinking of them. He was a talented chef and each gourmet meal was an offering of love. Chris loved taking the kids to the beach where he would jump the waves with them in his arms and swim them to the sand bars. He would spend hours with Henry building Legos and playing Nerf gun wars. When Henry was diagnosed with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, he vowed to fight when I didn’t know we could. He became an expert in standard of care, clinical trials, and advocacy. Chris filled his daughter Lucy with love. He cooked her special dinners when she didn’t like what was being served. They tore up the rug at yearly Valentine dances. He let her practice flips and gymnastics on him. Most importantly, Chris spent time with his kids and believed in them. Henry and Lucy adored him.
From the beginning of our life together, Chris never gave up. He loved me in good times and in bad. He was fearless and protected us and we knew we were safe with him. We could count on Chris to stand up for us. He was the best father and most generous husband. I will miss talking with him each night about our days, and our children, and our plans. I will miss the fun and joy the four of us shared. He was gentle and strong. He was my partner and teammate. Chris was my loyal and true friend. He cannot be replaced.
Chris spent the last year of his life working at home with his children to keep them safe and healthy. As we celebrate his life, we ask that visitors follow all COVID-19 safety precautions by remaining masked and six feet apart.
Services: Visitation at Kutis South County Chapel 5255 Lemay Ferry Road on Sunday, March 14, 2021 from 2 p.m. until time of service at 4 p.m.
Contributions can be made for the benefit of Henry & Lucy Diemler via GoFundMe ( http://gf.me/u/zmszu5 ) or via check to the Christopher and Claire Diemler Revocable Living Trust, First Community Credit Union, 9550 Watson Road, Saint Louis, Missouri 63126.
Claire, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. When I heard the news from a close family member of ours I was completely shocked and had tears in my eyes, thinking of you, Henry and Lucy. I had only met Chris a few times, and he was such a gentleman and made me feel like I was part of the family. I love you all so much and pray for healing during this difficult time. Please let me know if you need anything. Love your cousin Jill
My sincere condolences on your loss. I am thankful for the time and experiences we had together. Chris was a great friend fraternity brother and roommate.
So sorry to hear about Chris’s passing. I grew up in the same neighborhood as him (white ridge) and spent many days and nights hanging out, playing midnight werewolf and many othergood summer memories! Chris was a good friend to all of us! My thoughts are with his family.
This is so sad! Chris was such a great guy and a true friend to all. A wonderful example of a friend and a brother to his KE Family. Rest in a peace buddy…you were taken too early from us. Hang in there family…prayers are with you!
So sorry to hear! What a great guy. Way too soon.
Sending lots of love, thoughts and prayers from overseas. Love you Claire, Henry and Lucy!
Claire,
I am so sorry for your and your families loss. I pray that God covers and protects your family in this time of grief. I pray that you gain the strength, courage and faith to get through this horrible trial.
Weeping endure for a night but Joy (Gods Joy) comes in the morning. Psalm 30.
Oh Claire, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your beautiful children.
God bless! I am so sorry for your loss. The times I was around Chris he seemed to always be in good mood and smiling. It was always easy to see how much he loved his family! You and the kids will always be in our prayers.
Please accept my condolences! This is very sad news indeed. I will be thinking of you and your family. I’m so sorry you all have this sadness to bear.
This is devastating. A true tragedy. Chris was a dear old friend and will be missed in so many ways. His presence, the good times and all of the great memories will never be forgotten. My deepest condolences.
Claire and family,
My heart simply hurts upon hearing this news. Nothing but love and well wishes to you and the children as you readjust your lives without Chris there, but he will always be there in spirit guiding his family in the right direction, and the foundation he has built will guarantee a life of success for his children.
Dear Claire, what a wonderful description of a beautiful soul and beautiful life, thank you for sharing that about Chris. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Henry & Lucy, and Sandra, Keith & Jeffrey, and all of your family. I wish you strength while you adjust to life with Chris’ love & support coming from above instead of next to you.
During this trying and mournful time, please know our thoughts and prayers are with the three of you. We share your grief at Chris’s untimely passing and the peace of knowing his life was well lived and his legacies remain.
Give me ears to listen to your small, soft voice saying:
“Come to me, you who are overburdened, and I will give you rest…
For I am gentle and humble of heart.”
Let that loving voice be my guide. Amen.
(Henri J. M. Nouwen)
My sincerest condolences to the family. I am so sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers. I will always remember Chris as a great friend and fraternity brother. He will always be in my fondest memories.
Sad to hear! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
My prayers go out to Chris’s family. So many great memories of Chris. Lee’s Summit high school, his basketball prowess, love for Chiefs and Mizzou basketball, CJ’s wings in Columbia, Kappa Sigma fraternity. What a great person and friend to many. He will truly be missed.
Dear Claire, Henry, and Lucy:
I was so shocked to hear about Chris and my heart hurts for all of you. I said a prayer for all of you that God will comfort you all with His Love and give you strength to face each day. Know that you are never alone and you are always LOVED by Him and by ME. I’m here for you and I care.
Love Aunt Ginny
My condolences to The Diemler family. What a good person Chris was.
He will be rewarded mightely in heaven for all the good he did on earth.
My thoughts and prayers are with Claire, Lucy and Henry.
Chris was a wonderful co-worker and friend. I was blessed to attend the annual golf tournament he coordinated in honor of “Team Henry”. It was always interesting to see people walk around the office with “Team Henry” tee shirts on. Words cannot describe how sad we all are over Chris’ passing. Prayers being said for family & friends. xo
Claire,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Chris was the best of us. Kind, generous, funny, charming, just a good person. He was so in love with you and the family you both created, it just shone through him. He was so proud of all of you. I will never forget his smile. I will never forget him. Sending prayers to you and your sweet children.
I am so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing Claire. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I didn’t realize you had a challenge already with your son. And now to face it alone. If there’s anything you need, let your CJ classmates know and you know we will be there for you. Sacred Heart of Jesus we place our trust in you.
Claire, Henry and Lucy,
I met Chris through our mutual friends the Kuehlers. Our passion for volunteering and service to others was a common bond. I can’t imagine the loss you each individually feel with Chris’ passing. I am reminded of something I was told after the sudden loss of a dear family member. You are so very fortunate to have so many amazing memories of your loved one and hopefully those memories will provide you with a smile and laughter on occasion when your heart aches.
I am very sorry for you loss, and am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Thoughts and prayers go out to the family. His smile and laugh were contagious. And I will always remember him with a big smile on his face along with other great memories. Rest In Peace brother. AEKDB.
Very sorry to hear of your loss 🙁