passed away on September 30, 2021 at age 93 and into the loving embrace of Jesus Christ. Jean was born on October 31, 1927. She is survived by her husband, Francis G. Steffen, of 66 years. She is the mother of Robert Steffen (Laura); George Steffen, deceased (Paula Pavel); Barbara Carmedelle (Paul); and Ann Steffen (George Gerules). Jean is grandmother to seven: Dan, Eric, Chris, Andrew, Cara, Teresa and Julia; and great grandmother to Margaret. She was one of seven children of Edward and Agnes Matthews, and loved and was beloved by her siblings, nieces and nephews. Jean loved and practiced her Catholic faith with conviction after joining the church as an adult. She often could be found volunteering at Seven Holy Founders Catholic Church and School and many charities in the St. Louis area including Meals on Wheels and homeless shelters. She used her knitting and crochet talents to provide afghans, sweaters, and stocking caps for her family and the homeless. She is an Associate of the Ursuline Sisters in Kentucky, part of their support team and prayer warriors. Her enthusiasm for St. Louis professional sports teams was unrivaled as she was once a ticket holder, rarely missed a game on television and reveled in the many championships achieved. Jean was a longtime supporter of opera, symphony and theatrical companies, The St. Louis Zoo, The Missouri Botanical Gardens and other local institutions. She loved music, cooking, travel, fishing, boating, hiking, gardening and her more than 50 rose bushes. Faith and family always came first for Jean. She leaves behind a legacy of how to live an inspired, successful life, being a servant of God in her daily activities. Her family and friends will miss her greatly, though we know she is in Heaven and is encouraging us to be the best we can be until we meet again. Suggested memorial gifts to: St. Vincent’s Community Outreach (vco-stl.org), Ursuline Sisters of Mount Saint Joseph (ursulinesmsj.org), or St. Louis Symphony Orchestra (slso.org). Visitation will be from 9:00-10:00am on Monday, October 18th at Seven Holy Founders Church, 6741 Rock Hill Road, Affton MO 63123, followed by a Mass of the Resurrection at 10am. Per church guidelines, masks will be required for all in attendance. Burial will be immediately following at Resurrection Cemetery.
She was a kiind and lovely person. We will miss her.
Jean was a wonderful lady and neighbor. Praying for your family.
She was a beautiful person.
Aunt Jean,
You will be missed and we will carry our memories close to our hearts. I may not have been a “ true” family member, but the Steffens sure felt like Family to the Gilson’s. We are so Sorry for your heartache and we Gilson’s grieve along with you. All our Love & Prayers
Aunt Jean and her brothers and sisters were my family many years ago. Many memories still clear and cherished. Always good and caring. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss! She was such a nice person!
Much love for you and your family Ann. My deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers.
Jean was one of the best neighbors you could ask for! She taught me so much when it comes to flowers and life in general! She will be truly missed by all of us.
Our sympathy to Francis, the family and all who knew her. Memories of visiting their home years ago and enjoying all her lovely roses. She will surely have a “Rose Garden” in heaven.
Peace, Strength and Faith in the days ahead.
Wendell and Betty Curtman
The Mertens family extends their sorrows for your lost. Your family had always been close friends
Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts are with your family at this time. May you find some comfort in knowing we care and support you now. We will be here for you as you grieve this incredible loss in the days ahead. – Steve and Kami
It was a true pleasure to have met Mrs. Steffen as well as Mr. Steffen. I remember going to their home a couple of times and saw their lovely gardens and what pride they took in caring for them. It was always a real treat when George would bring their fresh crops to the office. We all scrambled so we were able to get a share of those wonderful vegetables. She was a kind and loving person and will be missed yet never forgotten. Love and healing wishes to her family and friends
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers
The world will certainly be a lesser place without Jean.
The best aunt a person could ask for.